Jan 4 2012

Christmas reflection: Recognizing Christ when we find him

Larry LivingstonThis is the last in this seasonís Christmas reflections from Larry Livingston, CFCA church relations director. We hope these reflections have helped you on your own journey through this time.

“And behold, the star that they had seen at its rising preceded them, until it came and stopped over the place where the child was.” (Matthew 2:9)

It is interesting to observe how differently families and faith communities deal with the “Three Kings” in their Nativity scenes.

Some place the figurines right there at the manger, along with the baby Jesus, as soon as Advent begins, while others keep them hidden away until the Feast of the Epiphany and only then allow their crËches to be complete. Read more

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Dec 28 2011

Christmas reflection: We are God’s partners in serving others

Larry LivingstonEvery Wednesday during the Christmas season, we will post a reflection from Larry Livingston, CFCA church relations director. We hope these reflections help you on your own journey through this time.

ìAnd Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart.î (Luke 2:19)

Raising children is always an adventure, but perhaps even more so for adoptive parents.

Often I am completely clueless about the whys and wherefores of my sonís personality because, unlike some, I canít look at him and see myself at his age.

And I learned pretty early on in my parenthood that it is a mistake to try.

Sure, this can be frustrating at times, but it can also be a delight. I canít count the number of times I have been bowled over by the creative insights Ben has or by his left-field sense of humor.

He sees things just a little differently from me, and I have come to cherish that difference as a surprise bonus of him being my son.

My experience with Ben gives me, I think, a little insight into what it must have been like for Mary and Joseph as they raised Jesus.

Even before his birth they knew that this child would be different and that they would have to get used to sharing him with the world. Read more

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Dec 21 2011

Christmas reflection: Glorifying God with fully human lives

Larry LivingstonEvery Wednesday during the Christmas season, we will post a reflection from Larry Livingston, CFCA church relations director. We hope these reflections help you on your own journey through this time.

[This reflection is based on the Scripture readings for Christmas Mass during the day.]

Communication is a tricky business. First you have to come up with the right words to say, then you hope the listener hears what you intend. Between your original thought and the listenerís final interpretation there is plenty of room for misunderstanding.

So you can imagine Godís frustration in wanting to communicate to a wounded humanity just how sacred and deeply loved we are, only to have some hear only judgment and condemnation, while others hear nothing at all. Read more

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Dec 19 2011

Giving the gift of sponsorship this Christmas

By Shanxi Omoniyi, web editor and writer

Margarita, CFCA sponsored aging, and sponsor David Pumphrey on mission awareness trip to Chile

Margarita, left, is sponsored by David, right, and Jen Pumphrey. The Pumphreys visited Margarita during a 2011 mission awareness trip to Chile.

If, like me, you’re still shopping for Christmas gifts for friends and family, why not consider giving sponsorship as a gift?

Many of our sponsors have been calling us to ask whether they can gift a sponsorship to their nieces, grandchildren or other relatives.

Longtime CFCA sponsors Tom and Gerri Hiestand recently set up a new sponsorship for their 14-year-old granddaughter Ally.

With this process, Ally will receive correspondence from their sponsored friend, Sendy from Honduras, while Tom and Gerri pay the monthly sponsorship contributions.

“One of the nicest things, I think, will be the correspondence between the kids,” Gerri said. “We have another granddaughter, and we’ve mentioned both of our granddaughters in some of the letters to our older sponsored children. The adopted children always seem quite interested in knowing more about their lives. In this way, it can be a really direct communication between all our children.”

Tom said growing up today in the U.S. can be a very materialistic process. He said that he and Gerri hope this gift will encourage their granddaughter to know that other people may not have enough for their daily needs, and that she can help.

Sponsorship is a practical way to reach out and meet the needs of those living in poverty around the world, he said.

“We can all easily get wrapped up in our own little world, and this is a good way for our youth to realize there are a lot of folks in need out there,” he said.

If you’d like to give someone a sponsorship, please call us at (800) 875.6564 or email info@cfcausa.org.

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Oct 3 2011

How CFCA projects worldwide celebrate Christmas, part 3

Previously we interviewed several CFCA projects around the world about last year’s Christmas celebrations for sponsored friends and their families.

Here are answers from three projects in the Philippines: Quezon, Antipolo and Legazpi.

CFCA sponsored children at Christmas celebrations in Antipolo, Philippines

Sponsored children in the Antipolo project, Philippines, at the CFCA Christmas celebration.

How do you select the types of gifts for sponsored children?

Quezon: We choose practical things for sponsored friends to use and celebrate the Christmas occasion with family, in school and during the CFCA Christmas party.

The celebration usually features a theatrical play by sponsored friends, a musical/band presentation and a talent competition.

As we empower and sustain our local livelihood products and services, some CFCA communities started to have their food catered by the livelihood project during this celebration.

Antipolo: Because of the families’ limited income, they often spend their money on food and other high-priority items, and the need for clothing goes unmet. Our clothing gifts were selected to address what sponsored friends requested. These gifts are very meaningful to them.

They wear these gifts at CFCA Christmas parties, school, community gatherings, birthday parties and church. What is amazing is their joy to extend their gifts with their siblings. Sponsored aging friends have shared their gifts with their grandchildren.

Legazpi: Christmas is one of the favorite celebrations, not only by sponsored children but by people of all ages because it brings peace, hope, joy and love. Sponsored members and families marked the Yuletide season as the most-awaited event in their lives.

We selected our gifts based on what parents of sponsored children requested during our annual planning session with project staff members. Read more

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Sep 19 2011

How CFCA projects worldwide celebrate Christmas, part 2

Pravalika, sponsored child in India, at the CFCA Christmas celebrations

Pravalika, right, a sponsored child in Hyderabad, India, participates in the CFCA Christmas celebrations.

Virginia, a sponsored child in Guatemala, displays her tamales and bread at a CFCA Christmas celebration

Virginia, a sponsored child in Guatemala, displays her tamales and bread at a CFCA Christmas celebration.

Previously we interviewed several CFCA projects around the world about last year’s Christmas celebrations for sponsored friends and their families.

Here are the answers from eight projects: five in India, and three in Guatemala.

How do you select the types of gifts for sponsored children?

Bhagalpur, Chennai, Delhi, Dumka and Hyderabad projects, India: We asked the mothers groups what they would like as gifts for their sponsored children, then gave them what the majority of the mothers had requested.

South, Chiquimulilla and Solol· regions, Guatemala: Clothes let our sponsored children dress nicely and help raise their self-esteem.

Gifts such as schoolbags also help contribute to our sponsored friends’ economic well-being.

Many times our children feel sad or unfortunate because they do not have the opportunities that others have, and we feel that they deserve some happiness during these holidays.

Cookies, chocolates and sweets for sponsored children are treats that they can share with the whole family.

The snacks (tamales and soft drinks) are given to sponsored members and their families to share as a community and also with other sponsored friends from different villages.

They enjoy many activities, such as artistic performances by sponsored members and CFCA staff, breaking of piÒatas, contests and raffles.

The CFCA Christmas Fund provides opportunities to encourage the true spirit of Christmas, peace, love†and unity†for our sponsored children and their families.

The financial resources of our families are very limited. Parents would like to provide an annual gift for their children, but usually this is not possible. Continue reading

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Sep 12 2011

How CFCA projects worldwide celebrate Christmas, part 1

Even though it’s only September, it’s never too early to start thinking about sending your sponsored friend a Christmas card! Because mail can be slow, we recommend scheduling six to eight weeks for a letter to arrive at your friend’s project.

We interviewed several CFCA projects around the world about last year’s Christmas celebrations for sponsored friends and their families. Here are the answers from three projects: Merida, Mexico; Santa Ana, El Salvador; and Bogota, Colombia.

Sponsored children select their own gifts in a CFCA Christmas celebration in Bogota, Colombia

Sponsored friends buy their own gifts during CFCA Christmas celebrations in Bogota, Colombia.

How do you select the types of gifts for sponsored children?

Merida: When Christmas approaches, one thinks about cold days coming. Those lucky enough to live close to family take this time to meet, and those who are not as close spend time with friends. The point is to spend time with those around us.

But while this season fills us with smiles, snow, warm clothing and abundant food, Christmas is a moment of reflection. Christmas is the date when Jesus Christ was born.

Christmas is a moment of humility that fills our hearts, but not with chocolates, stuffed turkey or Christmas carols. We must open our hearts to peace, love, happiness, contentment, and give back for all the blessings we have received. Read more

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