Archive for June, 2010
Francini’s joy is a letter from her sponsor
My name is Francini. I am 12 years old, and I live in in Costa Rica.
I usually get up at 6 a.m. I eat breakfast and, later in the morning, I help my mother with the house chores, especially sweeping and washing dishes.
Right now, I am in fifth grade, and my favorite subject is mathematics. I usually leave for school around noon. I walk for about 10 minutes to get to school. It is not far.
I have received some cards and letters from my sponsors, having them brings happiness and joy to my life, I am very happy to be sponsored by them and CFCA.
If my sponsors were here I would offer them my gratitude for everything that they have done and given me. They are very special.
Have you ever wondered about the letters you receive from your friend? Read Dani Pollock’s blog post about the letter-writing process in Honduras where she is serving as a CFCA volunteer.
You can also learn more about Francini’s home life by visiting walk2gether.org.
June 30, 2010 at 4:43 pm Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment
Walker, where are you going?
Thirteen years ago, there was a young girl in the Colombian town of Tarso with no clear goals or dreams. But one day some people came by her house asking what the needs of her family were, and suddenly a hope for her future awakened.
Thanks to the those social workers and two angels, her sponsors, the young girl, Yuli, started to feel motivated in her schooling and improving herself each day. God was granting her opportunities through the people Yuli considered her angels.
As the years went on, Yuli, the girl who previously didn’t have any aspirations, now had a defined path. She was attending high school as a result of the financial support and encouragement of her angels, and kept focused on the dream she wanted to accomplish, which was to graduate.
Yuli, with determination, kept telling herself, “I will keep on no matter what.” Her efforts were worth it as she reached that goal and after graduation started a career with CFCA’s Madre Paula project.
She experienced the love of her angels and is grateful to them for the many years of spiritual and financial help. Yuli also thanks God for allowing her journey to cross paths with her sponsors.
Yuli’s words of wisdom:
“Life has great opportunities in store for the ones who assume challenges and take risks.
Sponsorship may change the course of a person’s life entirely if that person learns to take full advantage of it, but their work does not end there. They must become like a hummingbird that is so skillful in spreading seeds from branch to branch, from flower to flower. There are not limits but definite purposes for the ones that take the opportunity.
Dream, fly, share and never forget that there will be angels on your way.”
This reflection was written by Deisy Yuliana Betancur Cardenas, former sponsored child and now a CFCA staff member in the Madre Paula project in Colombia. Yuli shared her reflection with participants on a CFCA mission awareness trip in Colombia in May.
June 25, 2010 at 3:20 pm Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment
Discovering what sponsorship really means
By Cathy Cazares, CFCA Parish Contact
In 2003, my family and I attended a mission, which was held at our parish for three consecutive nights. A mission is when parishioners come together to enliven their spiritual life. The visiting priest during the mission was a presenter for Christian Foundation for Children and Aging. On the final night, we went to the basement of the church where we had the opportunity to sponsor a person in a developing country. The folders lining the tables contained photos and information of the children, youth and aging waiting to be sponsored.
Our experience during the mission inspired us, and we were open to seeing what this was all about. Our youngest two girls were 10 and 8 years old, so they were all about helping us choose. We knew it would be Juan, a young boy from Colombia, the moment we saw his photo. We had no idea what had just begun.
Our sponsorship began that night – a little writing back and forth, when we could squeeze it in. We were excited about the letters we received from him, and we would occasionally read the CFCA publications that were sent to us. Later, Juan was retired when he moved out of the CFCA service area, and we were given another little boy, named Santiago, “Santi.” The beautiful look on his face warmed us.
I did most of the writing in the family. But I still didn’t understand that sponsorship was more than the money. I figured, well, at least we are sending the money and that’s good even if the letters did not get written.
In August 2009, I began looking diligently for a job. My youngest daughters were now both in high school, and our family needed additional income for school and their increased activities. I really don’t remember how I ended up on CFCA’s website and looking at the employment section, but I did and that’s where I saw the posting for Parish Contact.
This position required calling parishes in the United States to see if their pastors were open to having one of CFCA’s presenters visit the parish and talk about CFCA. I applied and got the job. The Lord has blessed me and our family with this opportunity.
In thanksgiving for finding employment and for an answer to our prayers, we decided to begin an additional sponsorship of another little boy. This time our new friend lived in Kenya. Stanley, “Vin,” as he is fondly called, was specifically chosen to honor a former employer named Stanley, who was also from Kenya.
I’ve worked at CFCA for almost a year now, and I’ve learned so much about what sponsorship is really all about. You might think that we are making such an impact on their lives, but really, they are the ones that fill us with joy and give us an opportunity to serve. The money provides, of course, much needed food and helps cover educational needs, but the developing friendship between two families who were perfect strangers before, is what sponsorship is truly all about.
Learning more about CFCA has enhanced my sponsorship experience and my friendship with Vin and Santi. I treasure their letters. I am like a child at Christmas when I see them in the mail. I can’t open them quickly enough. I read all the publications and check the blog and website for new stories, too. Throughout the day, I am always wondering, “What has Santi learned to do now?” or “What is Vin doing in school?” The pictures are priceless. To see them grow up right before your eyes, looking healthy and happy, is what is most important. I keep their photos framed on my desk at work and at home. I ask God to bless them and their families, and keep them safe always, along with my own children and grandchildren.
June 24, 2010 at 3:52 pm Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment
In memory
In addition to what we had reported earlier, it has been confirmed that nine sponsored children died in the ensuing mudslides caused by Tropical Storm Agatha. We have personally notified each sponsor individually of the loss.*
Today, we want to honor the memory of those nine children who died in the mudslides. The short video below is a small tribute to our dear friends.
Thank you for your continued prayers.
*As is our policy, we do not release names of the deceased until the sponsors have been notified first.
June 23, 2010 at 8:22 am Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) 9 comments
For all the fathers
By Natasha Sims, blog admin
I can’t tell you how many times I have started this blog post about Father’s Day, only to delete it and start over. It’s a curious thing to write about fathers. Many of the families we serve, especially in Latin America, are headed by a single mother because the father has abandoned his family. In other cases, wives and children are subjected to abuse by frustrated men who can’t provide for their family.
And, yet, I can’t help but feel guilty for making such sweeping, stereotypical statements about fathers because there are so many loving, gentle fathers who are focused on creating a better life for their family.
So, I decided that, rather than give you one story for Father’s Day to read through the weekend, I would find all the inspirational father stories and anecdotes that I could think of — from the heart-warming to the heart breaking.
Below you will find excerpts and links to stories gathered from our blog and website.
Enjoy!
“I am focused on everything I can do to bring up my children with an honest life and to help them graduate,” Daniel Ernesto said. “Once my children are grown and have graduated, I will feel satisfied. Then, I may have a chance to think about me and my life.”
From Focused on his children
Hector has a fierce love for his wife and children. He protects them and ensures that they have what they need. And, education is his first priority. “Sometimes my children help me in my plantation, but school is first, so I work alone most of the time.”
From The courage and love of a father
A man who is still searching the mud for family members said, “I am going to look for them until I find their bodies. I have lost everything.
From Mudslides devastate towns in the blink of an eye
An ERPAT father named Federico shared his experience in helping Allan, 10, overcome the trauma caused by Typhoon Ondoy.
From Opening the window
El Salvador celebrates Father’s Day. CFCA’s El Salvador Director of Communications Henry Flores shows us how CFCA supports that celebration on this special day.
Watch Celebrating fathers in El Salvador
CFCA fathers groups were instrumental in the response to the typhoons in the Philippines.
From Photos from the Philippines
For Rene, his most important role as a father is sharing the reality of life with his children. This includes “explaining the good and bad effects of drinking too much alcohol, behaving as a model in whatever I do, and encouraging my children to study until they earn the highest degree they can,” he said.
From CFCA’s website
Please pray
Our Father, we give you thanks for the men around the world who serve as protectors and guides for their families. Let your strength be their strength, let your wisdom be their wisdom, let your love shine through them. We pray for those men who struggle to fulfill their role as fathers to their children. Help them to know your grace. Bless the bonds of love that exist between all fathers and their families.
From Prayer Partners
June 18, 2010 at 6:33 pm Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment
A prayer from the board
Since today is the CFCA board meeting, it is only fitting that we share the following prayer. Each board member was asked to share a hope for Bob while he is walking. The following is a compilation of those wishes from the board members. Eileen Greenlay, one of CFCA’s board members, read it at the Mayan prayer ceremony on the night before Walk2gether’s launch in Guatemala. It’s meant for Bob to carry with him in spirit throughout the walk.
The Chinese proverb says: “A bird does not sing because it has an answer. It sings because it has a song.” May you walk with a song in your heart.
Since the Word of God is always the same, but ever new to us, a quote from Psalms:
“I will walk in the presence of the Lord in the land of the living.” Psalm 116
May our Brother be your strength and protection as you walk with his brothers and sisters. Live, Jesus, in our hearts!
May you walk in hope-filled witness, embodying the spirit and faith, the joys and struggles of all who have walked and prayed these paths.
May you walk with the assurance of a daily remembrance in my Mass and prayers that you be blessed with peace and safety as you walk with and for the poor, bringing hope for families.
May you walk … with the sun on your face, with the wind at your back, with peace of mind, and with all of us in your heart.
Que abunda el frijol
Que abunda el maíz
Y que seas muy feliz
Que abunda el frijol
Que abunda el arroz
Y que te bendiga Dios.
Que Dios te Bendiga! Yo espero que yo puedo unir su viaje siguio el camino. Su amigo tambien.
May the light of God illumine the heart of your soul.
May the flame of Christ kindle you to love.
May the fire of the Spirit free you to live and keep you well on your journey.
~ With Love,
2010 CFCA Board of Directors
Scott Wasserman, Chief Governing Officer
Ed Herman, Treasurer
Rev. Allan Weinert, C.Ss.R., Secretary
Catherine Crosby
Eileen Greenlay
Louis Guillou
Rev. Vince Haselhorst
Anne Ryder
Carolyn Zimmerman
June 16, 2010 at 11:50 am Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment
Coaching the future
Yesterday, we introduced you to three sponsored kids who are part of the soccer training camp. To continue the World Cup fever, here’s an interview* with their coach, Stanley. At the bottom of this interview is a fun video of the kids practicing, so be sure to watch these future World Cup athletes in training!
What is your name?
My name is Stanley Remberto Santillana Ortiz.
How many children are in the soccer camp?
In the soccer camp, we have approximately 25-30 children.
What is the average age of the children?
It fluctuates between the ages of 7 and 18.
Why does CFCA offer this camp?
They offer this camp to introduce some soccer basics to the children and to give them an opportunity to be together and understand the sport.
What is the value that this camp brings to the sponsorship program?
The value that it brings is to give the children a little more attention in the area of sports and, at the same time, it doesn’t distract them from their studies. Both are very important.
What part of the training do the children enjoy the most?
What the children most enjoy is perhaps after the training, they have a scrimmage – a little game. This is the thing they like the most.
How long have they been training?
We have been training and practicing for about a year and three months.
What is the idea or goal for the kids who come to soccer practice?
The fundamental idea is for the child to have fun, and that the child learns to play soccer. Our goal is to include them in a soccer tournament where they can compete with other teams and they can have healthy fun and play together.
How is the practice? What time do you start and how long do they practice?
We have practice Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. Tuesdays and Thursdays, practices are in the morning from 8-10. We begin with stretching, physical movements, then we do tactical movements and techniques with the ball. Finally, we end with a game.
What satisfaction do you get from coaching soccer?
Since I was little, I have always liked soccer, and the children motivate me, because I see their satisfaction when they are playing. This encourages me to follow through with them.
What changes have you seen in the children?
Many of them used to spend their time at home doing nothing. One is capable of detecting when a child doesn’t have advanced, motivating activities. During our training, I have seen the improvement and evolution that it has given the child. I can see it there already when they run, kick the ball or whatever we are doing on the training field.
Is it difficult to coach the children?
Well, difficult, no, although sometimes there are children with a stronger temperament, and as a coach, you have to learn when to avoid or to respond to their temperaments, but it is not difficult. It is all about knowing the way children are and then getting along with them.
What do you do when a child has a strong temper?
When we have a child like that, I speak with him or her. If this does not work, I can take him or her out of the practice, and it is then when the child reflects and thinks “I am being taken out of the practice, and I want to continue playing. I better behave because I want to be in the practice,” This is a good way to mold his or her personality, and things calm down at the same time.
What are the difficulties that children face in order to come to the practice?
I would say that the difficulties I have seen are, sometimes, their own parents. Sometimes parents tell their children “Look, don’t go to practice because you need to work or need to do this and that.” For example, to pick coffee during the picking season. The child discontinues training because there is no other option, and this is the biggest difficulty I see. The child can be highly motivated, but when parents say this is it, they feel very discouraged.
What is their preparation right before a game?
Well, they all get dressed and geared up. We do some stretching, some movements with the ball, and then I talk to them and tell them what we are going to do once we are on the field and how we need to get ready.
When you have the children gathered together, what do you tell them?
My words are mostly motivational and encouraging, to play the way we have been during the week, just to pass the ball around and to kick it to the goal posts. I try to keep them motivated.
Have you won any games?
We have won games and we have also lost games. Sometimes we have won with a difference of six or seven goals, and the children feel very motivated, but when we are losing, they don’t like it too much. They don’t like losing, but it is just another way you learn.
When you win, how do you reward them? When you lose, what do you tell them?
When we win, I congratulate them all. When we lose, I encourage them to continue working hard during the training sessions.
*Thank you again to Naresly Callito for the interview and to Daniel Hernandez for the photos and video footage.
June 11, 2010 at 9:42 am Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) 3 comments
World Cup fever
Look around, you may notice some telltale signs that a little sporting event begins tomorrow. The stage for soccer’s greatest tournament is set. In less than 24 hours, the FIFA World Cup, held every four years and arguably the most popular sporting event in the world, kicks off (excuse the pun) in Johannesburg, South Africa.
Soccer, or football, depending on where you live, is a widely popular game among children and adults alike. In El Salvador, the CFCA Santa Ana project provides a soccer training camp for sponsored children as part of the sponsorship program benefits. We sent field reporters* Daniel Hernandez and Naresly Callito to interview some of the kids about the camp and find out which team they will be supporting this year’s World Cup.
We have soccer fever. Do you?
*A big thanks to Daniel and Naresly, two journalism students who are interning with CFCA under the supervision of Henry Flores, director of the communications center in El Salvador.
June 10, 2010 at 4:39 pm Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment
Walk2gether gives staff members a challenge
Dear blog readers,
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Sunilde (left), Barquisimeto project coordinator in Venezuela at the border with Judith, Bogota, Colombia, project coordinator |
With an emotional encounter between Colombian and Venezuelan colleagues in Paraguachon, Colombia, Walk2gether ended its time in Venezuela, leaving behind in each of us a process of profound reflection, inspired by shared moments and all the things we’ve seen during this long journey.
Also, this encounter between colleagues reaffirms that there are no borders when our unity comes from God. The most important thing is that with this experience, we understand a little more about the challenge set before us by CFCA to give hope to families.
Likewise, the walk allowed us to affirm our own reality in the context of strengths and weaknesses clearly evidenced on the route/trip.
- Strengths
- • Beautiful landscapes
- • The presence of our CFCA families (parents, guardians, boys, girls, teenagers and the elderly), giving us their support and solidarity at all times.
- • The support we received from people and families who aren’t a part of the sponsorship program.
- • The logistical support on the part of the sponsored teenagers and scholarship students.
- Weaknesses
- • The large quantities of trash observed along the route of the walk.
- • Dead animals, the majority of which were run over on the highways.
- • Violence along the roads committed by the drivers of the vehicles.
Challenges raised by the Walk
We are called from this point forward to a series of very significant challenges in our community-level intervention and especially, in our work with CFCA families:
- Social challenges
- • Learn to live in community.
- • Respect diversity in its different manifestations: ethnic, political, religious, cultural and others.
- • Relationship with the environment of which we are a part.
- • Emphasize a true culture of peace.
- • Quality education for all.
- Challenges to life
- • Respect life. Encourage a culture of life to counter the culture of death that reveals itself to us in the form of violence and threatens individual security.
- • Protection for the lives of animals.
- • Respect for human rights.
- Environmental challenges
- • Elimination of trash, starting with the communities where we work.
- • Beautifying the communities.
- • Care and conservation of natural resources.
I say goodbye with sincere thanks for this experience, and for Bob and Cristina’s presence among us as symbols of peace and brotherhood among all people.
Sincerely,
Sunilde Pérez
Barquisimeto Project Coordinator, Venezuela
June 7, 2010 at 1:39 pm Christian Foundation for Children and Aging (CFCA) Leave a comment









